Ruth Wilma Jean (Dilday) Harkey
May 17th, 2012Loving Mother, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother, Sister, Aunt, and Friend to all, Ruth Wilma Jean (Dilday) Harkey was born on December 8, 1924 to Richard Robert Dilday Sr. and Lydia Mae Deel in Holdenville, Oklahoma. She was the oldest of three children.
Some of her favorite memories in life were spending time at Grandpa and Grandma Chadwick’s house, a house filled with cousins and love. This love would be her guide for life.
Her only child, Elmer Lee (Sonny) was born February 7, 1941. January 4, 1954 she married Henry Harkey. They lived in Oklahoma, Texas and finally settling in their dream home in Anaheim, California where Ruth lived until 1992. She moved back to Holdenville to be close to family, granddaughters Julie (1970) and Misty Gail (1973), both loved spending weekends at Grandma’s house and being spoiled!
Her trials in life taught her to understand and appreciate the simple things in life. She worked hard helping Henry deliver water to the oil fields in Texas. She retired as a skillful seamstress. Her chicken fried steak was the best, along with her fried catfish that Elmer Lee would bring home! She loved National Geographic, nature, standing in the waves at the beach, her dogs, feeding the wild birds and cats, but her favorite pastime was fishing. Her living room was once filled with beautiful ceramic pieces of nature after she took an art class for a hobby. Her trip to Singapore to visit her sister, Willie Mae, was another highlight in her life.
May our Heavenly Father bring us peace and help us to rejoice in this life and the next.
Ruth is survived by her sister Willie Mae and husband Charles Nally; granddaughters, Julie and husband Matthew, and Misty Gail; great grandchildren Joshua, Jordan, Tyler, Ivy Lee, Austin and Hunter; nieces Linda Sue and husband Clif, and Rich Anne and husband Bob, their children and many cousins.
Graveside services are scheduled for 10:30 am on Friday, May 18th, at the Holdenville Cemetery with Brother Earl Scroggins officiating. Services are under the direction of Hudson Phillips Funeral Home in Holdenville, Oklahoma. Online condolences may be left at www.phillipsfuneralservice.com.









